What should I do about this hostile passive-aggressive coworker who lied about me ?

Recently some lady at work who never bothered me before suddenly became very rude & hostile towards me.

Unfortunately I work in a group home with her as a care taker. She works at both homes sometimes & my boss probably won’t separate us as he’s lazy & won’t unless he has to. He doesn’t like changing things.

I think that she ratted on me when I bought a blanket to work. It was cold. You’re not supposed to bring blankets now to work. I forgot about that.

She then told my boss that I was ‘sleeping’ on the job. I wasn’t. I simply closed my eyes for litterally a few seconds.

I could’ve gotten fired as they do fire people for sleeping on the job. I think she is retaliating against me just because I politely asked her to please use her headphones once.

A nice coworker said that she gave me a dirty look after ignoring me ehen I asked her that.

Also, she tried to deliberately steal my parking spot twice. The first time I was faster & got it. She glared at me when I got out of the car but she didn’t say anything.

Then the second time she was faster since my engine was off. Next time I’ll take her spot at the side & get there first, lol 😆

I told my managers about what happened, but they don’t seem to care about anything. I would say something to her, but she seems crazy & she is a nasty person too, so she’ll probably just get pissed at me or ignore me at best.

She tried to steal another coworkers parking spot too once. Ridiculous!

I don’t understand why she is so rude & nasty. I never did anything to her. I am respectful to ever at work. I ignore the people who irritate me.

Anyways, my husband thinks that I shouldn’t say anything & to not cause ‘problems’ at work. So, should I just let this nasty lady bully me from now on? He even went so far as to say that she can easily Google my name & find out where I live & try to get back at me.

My boss did’nt believe me when I told him I just closed my eyes ar first until a nice coworker told him that I wasn’t sleeping.

He went on to say that I’m a good employee too. Nice! I had to ask him to help me out.

Why would this crazy lady fo this to me? I didn’t do anything wrong. Wait, I might’ve annoyed her when my coworker & I played some loud music on his speaker to drown put her loud awful music.

I was laughing & looked at her because it was my way of giving her a taste of her own medicine. lol

Unfortunately it didn’t stop her from listening to her crap music still, ugh.

She plays it loud with no consideration for anyone . My coworker doesn’t want to hear it either, but he doesn’t feel comfortable telling her to please turn the volume down. Same with the clients & other employees too.

Why is everyone but me afraid to speak up? So the day that I came back after she tried to get me fired. she stole my parking spot then she saw me & didn’t go inside.

She stayed outside for 2-3 hours when my coworkers & the client went out. At first I thought she was afraid of me because I knew it was ber probably as the only person there that day who could’ve ratted me out was her or this weird client in the house. He normally keeps to himself.

She was being a stupid passive aggressive weirdo by playing her music on & off. I did the same to annoy her, lol. I hate that, but I was pissed.

It’s possible that I unintentionally upset one of the clients there as I laughed at a few jokes about him that his roommate made. His roommate is hilarious. I didn’t mean to be mean. It just happened.

I never said anything negative about him unless you count the time that he threw away my food when it was in his fridge. He thought it was expired. I just warned other people to not put food in his fridge after that.

I never left anything in there again. He is a very passive aggressive person with his roommate.

What should I do? Should I say anything to that lady or not?

If not, why? Would it be a waste of time to complain about this to management? It probably would be as I had an issue with another nasty crazy lady at work over the same thing minus the parking issue recently too.

My boss was like, this is drama across the board & he said that he gets so many pics & videos all the time, that it takes time to go through things & that we all need to be supportive of each other or he’ll need to separate us.

He said that he’ll figure something out. I think he’s not going to do anything at all. My friend read his text & said that he’s an awful manager, rude, can’t spell, and that he doesn’t want to deal with anything at all.

She’s probably right about that. Another friend said that she’d like to punch him in the face, lol.

If I ignore her though, she’ll think that she can bully me. But if I say anything, she’ll try to retaliate or start petty childish crap with me again.

The thing with the music isn’t something I do often. I thought that would get the message through to her, but it didn’t. It just pissed her off..

She is so rude that she played her lame music early in the morning when the client was still asleep.

He woke up with a bad headache & was like, omg, my head hurts!

He didn’t complain about the music though. Rude! I recently tried to get her fired too afterwards by taking a pic of her sleeping with her head on the table. I don’t know if she got fired yet or not. I sure hope that she did. She’s a psychopath.

Even though my boss is always stressing meetings that it’s grounds for instant dismissal, they might not fire her as she might be friendly with management.

Also, I think that they might be a bit short staffed still, especially since 4 people were fired last month. We did get 3-4 new people though recently.

What would you do if you were me? H.R is a joke too. The guy there rarely answers calls or emails.